Originally Posted by HammerTime

Enough. It is rude, if you're talking to her and she's not giving you the time of day - that's not on. If you're both doing something though and you're occupied then that's different.

OK, I get frustrated easily. If it's with a girl I find attractive I usually feel the need to 'punish' them. Is that healthy?

But yes Cha, essentially you've put her on the pedestal. Remove it.