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Originally Posted by FunkeyMonkey
I don't approach! Its sooo frustrating! Week after week this happens, I keep blaming the fact that I don't get out till around 10pm, bars and clubs are too loud or I end up seeing a mate and chat to him for half the night when its just me and I cant change it!! Sorry rant over! I will keep reading and keep trying.
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This is not gonna happen over night. If you want genuine change you'll need to work for it. There is no quick fix, although popular culture would have us all believe otherwise.
OK, so you've already identified some flaws in your approach. Get out earlier and more often, like straight after work. The fact you are beginning to chat to girls in shops, etc. is good. How about trying to push this further, try and chat to them about stuff completely unrelated to the shop, i.e. what they are up to at the wkd. Try and start flexing those social muscles a bit!!