Okay... this is gonna sound real stupid and pedantic but w/e.

Okay so with facebook, when messaging them on FB chat... is it right for u to message them first.

My scenario is this:

Religious girl, know her through a society. Friends have told me she talks about me sometimes.. asks questions blahblah.

Anyway messaged her on FB, convo carried on until 1AM.. then i went off, she carried on the convo messages throughout the next day then the day after or some bullshit, i spoke to her til 3AM (with other bitches).

now I haven't spoke to her for a while.. but she hasnt messaged me. usually girls will have messaged me or summat... now im not too arsed, just confused in general as to what you guys would do (who are way smoother).


i know some of u will be like fuck facebook right off.. im inclined to agree, i get nothing from FB and i prefer talking in the club/IRL... but this bitch doesnt go out.. anyway, any advice much appreciated. i know phils gonna already bang out a message which sends me right back to earth.. like a monthly even for him to do it.