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Originally Posted by kowalski
Cool.
I guess if girls are trying to get something from their guy for their own gain and this is a contributing factor to their being with him, it seems pretty mercenary to me and not something I would pander to by becoming someone with something coveted by such mercenary girls.
Happier without them, I think. Not the kind of person I would go out of my way to attract.
Peace,
kowalski
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I don't necessarily think it's an intentional thing, but it can contribute to why the girl likes them or just that they have a lot of knowledge about their chosen hobby, skills, or whatever, contribute to their value. I mean, you don't need to be an instructor to have higher value, just being different, being independent is enough...just seems like an easy way to get better at something you like and build your value without trying much.
Personally, I find it far easier to meet a girl I like through situations like that, similar interests, than randoms in a club.