Do you think in general, guys who do some kind of instruction, teaching, hobbies that require teaching (ski instructors, divers) have an automatic higher value level for girls? By giving instruction, you automatically come over as confident, being able to lead...

I've been out with some girls who I felt were always looking to learn something from the guy they were with but not in a mutual way, you know, like they were looking up too much or too impressionable to be worth it in the long run. Dunno , maybe this is just younger mid twenties girls who just have a different outlook. The older girls tend to know what they want more.