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Originally Posted by GenePoole
Has anyone ever found they've pushed a girl away by being too unavailable?
I was seeing someone recently who I ended up turning down for a few nights out (cos I was seeing someone else) after we were already going through the honeymoon phase.
I think this kind of pushed her away a bit or ended up just pissing them off - ironic as I was just starting to really get to like her but her mind was already made up.
Guess I shouldn't make that mistake again.
Having typed yesterday that I don't usually get dumped, this is the first time in years and it's painful! Hopefully just for a few days.
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this is the worst kind. What usually happens is they want your attention so bad they end up turnin to another guy.
they then love the new found power wen u say
"Hang on but i like u"
they prefer to stay in control & thats the end of that!
u learn shit over time. dont be distant, just dont be needy