use kino, once you've kissed her, just make the move, bounce to another location, or isolate her then get her to go back with you. If you have attracted her enough, and are kissing passionately, have her number and she wants to see you again, sort out her transport arrangements so she can go back with you. My tactic is to say "I'm staying with you tonight" and smile, but i only use it once i have turned her on enough.

You just have to make moves that feel natural to both of you, flow is key