Snake Eyes, I'm not sure if this applies to your situation or not. But anyway, a few years ago, I was openly promiscuous while living abroad in a fairly small community. I thought that the reputation would make me appear more attractive to other women because of the social proof thing, but with most of the quality women, I think it actually lowered my value in their eyes.

I imagine it was because of the way women are competitive with each other, and so by sleeping with women that they perceived as lower value than themselves, I ruined my chances with them. If I had my time again, I would try and be as discreet as possible.