Yeah this has been the approach I've been taking. Eg Guy in question bumped into us and had drink with us next day. He accidentily had my beer in front of him and I was like jesus christ do you need to nick everything of mine mate (in jokey way).

On surface think handling well. Using this forum to get my real feelings off my chest, which has worked and again good advice Phil. Put it in perspective.

The girl hasn't said a word to me since. Is weird as, pulling aside, she was one of my closest friends on island. I'm not in a rush to re-ignite this friendship though as she did act like a weirdo and an arsehole after we pulled.