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Originally Posted by Stein
It’s pretty telling how the best advice I can give with almost every thread I see like this is ‘go out and cold approach more’. That’s because if you’re still in the needy, scarce ‘what do I do to get this one special girl’ mindset there is absolutely NO special magic technique to help you.
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Stein I really like the whole of your post.
If I'm honest since reading the OPs original post I have thought back to when I felt the same (but probably didn't vocalise/write it) and tried to think of what the turning point for me.
I think you nailed it about just going out and meeting more girls.
You begin to see that as a whole many girls are the same in terms of they are attractive and can string an interesting sentence together but that doesn't mean that they are "the one". I think it takes a lot of time going out and chatting to (not just up) girls and people before you realise this. I can't say I even remember the pivotal point where I found this out, I just remember chatting up girls and supplicating 1 minute, to chatting to girls and not giving a shit the next, it just clicked...