ive banged heads against this one a few times and now resolved it

ive had a couple of girlfriends (not fuck buddies) that when we started seeing each other they made it clear that - they were still friends with their exs or they had loads of male friends.

now im my mind its ok to have opposite sex friends but when you are in a relationship with somone there are limits to what i deem acceptable

for example Girl being best friends with either her ex or a guy shes fucked and going on nights out/coffees/phone chats/txts - exclusively with just them
for example one girl i was seeing used to go out with drinks with a guy she said was just a friend -- anyway we were drivin home one night and we pulled into this country park to shag in the car-- she goes oh thingy took me here and tried it on with me!
i think girls somtimes mistake a guy as a friend when really his intentions are to bone her and he is an unwilling orbiter
so ive learned-- not to make a big whohar about it but instead to destroy her at her own game and then let it be her own decision to stop this behaviour

if i am in this situation now i`ll just remain unaffected by it and when she asks me what im doing i`ll have arranged to meet one of my attractive female friends for a catchup at my house
instantly it fucks them off and before you know it they have agreed to stop whatevers pissing you off