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Originally Posted by Joker
People cheat on each other for all kinds of reasons...you can't nessarily control all of them all the time...what you can control is yourself. And not being controlling, insecure, jealous, intrusive, obsessive, suffocating, needy, paranoid, judgemental etc within a relationship dynamic will go some way towards making any relationship more healthy and therefore reducing the potiential reasons someone might have to want to stray or walk away...
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Whilst your point is true that by not being those qualities will make the relationship more healthy (and reduce potential reasons someone might cheat),
I think MOST people will at some point feel SOME slight jealousy, paranoia or insecurity and this can sometimes lead to obsessive, needy, intrusive, obsessive or suffocating behaviors.
You have to try to spot when you are being like this, and STOP IT. Go tell a fucking shrink if you have to but don't portray it all onto your girl!