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Originally Posted by daleinthedark
Sometimes they just want to be friends. Why should you worry if you trust your girl implicitly not to go off with them? what is there to worry about?
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I think this is the issue:
you guys seem to come at it from the point of "I am the better man and if I carry on being like that she will not cheat" with her ex fuck buddy.
Whereas, I come at it from the point of view that it makes me unhappy knowing that one of her friends used to be with her intimately - maybe you heard/know a few of the scenarios, sex stuff they did, or something.
I just think changing my standards might make me happier but am not sure how to get past some of them.
Anyway, that about covers it...as you say...going round in circles.
Thanks