Ultimately, I think there is a dismount between how I perceive myself, and how I anlm perceived mlby others.
I have quite a sarcastic sense of humour and always assume that people realise that in just playing. I think people take me too seriously. Plus Im a muscular skin 'ed. Apparently I can seem quite menacing with first impressions, without saying a word. I got a taste of this when a lifeguard cowered as I walked up to him at a swimming pool the other day. Bizarre as I am not naturally confrontational.