That top is tight fitting Jaz, I don't really agree that it appears desperate, but then I can see why you'd think that. I think I can pull it off because I look rather young. Though in all honesty I bought it cos it made me laugh and not for any pickup reasons. My aim with dressing is to look relaxed in informal situations and 'intellectual' in formal situations ( Buy Black Wool Rich Double Breasted Coat from the Next UK online shop being my desired sorta look in the latter)