Well adjusted people often don't need advice but merely people to bounce their thoughts off. Thought in words through conversation often offers more clarity than the clusterfuck and billion thread cloud of thought that occurs internally.

You already knew these answers. You just needed to uncloud your thoughts. You can teach yourself to do that without the need to talk to others though. Bear that in mind, you can become better for it.

Not that there's anything wrong with conversational thought, it's just that sometimes there isn't anyone around to bring that clarity when it's necessary.