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Originally Posted by al_phaD
Not necessarily.
I brought a girl back to my mates house, I knew her a little bit but not really know what she is like.. we had wild sex all night long and it was the best night of my life! We were drinking as well which probably heightened it all, but I fucked her in the morning sober and she was pure slutty filth!! You don't NEED a relationship for this..
Admittedly.. sex in my first LTR was also amazing and I really did feel that deep connection (or at least I thought I did back when I was 14/15!)
GenePoole, whilst you are correct that everyone is different etc and that you prefer your way of thinking, have you ever tried the other school of thought? Have you tried seperating sex and love and emotions etc? Does it scare you?
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Doesn't scare me. I've had
ONS and short term flings (less than week) before but never longer than that unless it was a LTR (6months, 1 year, 2 years, etc.). ALso, they were never with the aim of keeping it short, I just lost interest in the person very quickly.
My point is that if I don't like someone, I lose attraction for them therefore am not interested in FB relationships.
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Do you have a wank to porn? do you also then want a relationship with the porn star?
this in its exagerated form is the same thing other people do when they just have sex with somone and dont want relationship
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It's an exaggeration though - you very easily argue that you wouldn't want to spend your whole life wanking to porn
