1. Stop thinking about her being the "first since being single". Forget that
2. Doesn't matter what us fellow PUAForum members think of you, nor anybody else
3. Why would you fluff? Don't even think about it. Just think about how nice she is, etc
4. Everyone makes mistakes and has rejections. She is obviously attracted or she wouldn't invite you round.. Don't even think about negative things,
5. No confusion needed, go round, have fun, arrange date 2. Simples