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Originally Posted by al_phaD
I don't fully understand your situation right now so please elaborate on the following:
Do you still live with your ex? or has she moved out?
Do you rent the house you live in? Are you financially stable now?
If I were you, just to avoid all the shitty conflict I'd move the fuck out SOMEWHERE ANYWHERE away from her..
But breakups don't have to be shitty and spiteful. Mutually agree to just leave each other alone.
Move away, get a better job, do an Open Uni course (funded by government), get a cheaper car, you're guna need the spare cash for dating hot chicks!
Anyway, good to hear you finally broke up.. how you holding out?
P.S DO NOT GO BACK TO HER. IT IS NEVER WORTH IT
Good luck dude
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I am currently living with the ex,she had to move back as the house is in her name not mine and her brother came back from travelling and needed his room back.It is a rented property.I also do have a stable job.
Its pretty awkward here at mo but there is no conflict its all been pretty amicable and adult,we were friends for 7years before we started going out.I think she still wants me back,but shes been told in no uncertain terms NO,the best she can hope for is friendship.
Shes put a deposit down on a property and ive got till the start of october to get a place sorted out.
My concern is that jobs are few and far between at the present hence looking to stick with the one i have for now.Plus its a job i like and way better than my last shit menial job its just the money sucks:S
I got the car running figures from a guy i work with whos missus takes the same route i would in reverse,so it is a guesstimate.
Theres no way id sell the car ive got i spent nearly a year waiting for it and lost so much money through dud former friends and was a factor in the break up,etc 2 much crap to bore you with.Ive come far to far with it to sell it now!!its my baby
Cheers for the advice Giant,No chance to house share tho,ive got 2 much stuff i want to keep and after this relationship and all the non stop talking and needy behaviour all i need is my own space for a while,tbh from £300 for shared to £350 for own place isnt horrific its the same as what id pay here in Kettering.Ive arranged some house/flat viewing in Northampton on monday,so ill see how it goes,maybe it is time to take a leap of faith ,get out of my comfort zone and let the chips fall where they may (can you tell i watched fight club last night lol)
I am feeling more positive for the future and my life,like a weights been lifted off my shoulders.I have goals and dreams and hopes to chase.Almost like my closed in world of staying home depressed is starting to fade a little bit.
Im even taking a girl out 2mora night!! Wish me luck
