Right ive recently split with the mrs for those of you who dont know.
The plan was to move to a bigger town/city about 20miles away.
However never living alone before i didnt fully realize the costs of living in a big town alone:S
I am torn 50/50 these are the pros and cons of my options

Living in big city
pros
more game
more to do
new start clean slate,far away from ex

cons
daily commute 20 miles
more expensive to live
I own my dad a lot of money and wouldnt be able to pay him back much
would be totally broke

staying in little town
pros
cheaper rent
could pay dad back quicker
more money to do things and go places

cons
boring place ive lived in 2 long:s ie not much to do,or game
always bumping into ex and others i dont like
if i game in a bigger place ive got to try and talk a girl into travels 20 plus miles to come back to mine

I could stay here bored out of my mind for another year while i straighten stuff out and get a job in the bigger town (wont have to pay £100 petrol a month to commute) then move there.
Plus get my finances sorted in that time,i spose.
All suggestions are welcome,i really am torn what to do in this matter.
I was so certain moving away was what i wanted to do,but i am concerned if im always broke all the time and unable to sort my debts out ill become resentful and end up wishing i never moved!!