On another note I'm currently reading

"How to make love like a Porn Star" (Jenna Jameson with Neil Strauss)


Which has given me infinitely more scope and a better view into the female psyche (sp?)

Albeit one with anger issues and sporadic drug addiction

Top three tips from the book

1/ The Person with less invested in the relationship calls the shots.

2/ If you act like a wuss, the girl will lose all respect for you.

3/ If you act like a twat, she will fawn over you for a while and become the needy one but at the cost of her self respect and eventually she will resent you for it.


Bit more insightful than

"be nice and talk to a girl"