Yeah, I'm not doing them to be more attractive to women but just to better myself hence 'self development' (which does tend to have a knock on affect with being better with girls.) As explained i'm spending too much time doing next to nothing! There's no point in me trying to self-justify sitting on my ass when my brain is telling me to be doing something more constructive.

Its easy enough to say 'do something you want to do' but you can't always think of something that may interest you. PUA is a great personal example, I only got into it through a friend recommending it. I would have never known about it on my own accord. It's reasons like this which is why i'm looking for a little inspiration off some of you guys as others may suggest something I had not thought of myself...