Guys, i understand what you are saying.

Look at what he wrote....a girl shows interest in him and then he rejects and shows disinterest in a her because he didnt want it to seem like she was the dominant one!! Thats fucked up, his whole belief system is not directed to the same place.

I know how his brain works, its different to ours, he see's social situations as black and white, but they are not. One belief he has is telling him to be alpha and in control and not let the girl lead, the other is telling him that he wants sex. Strangely he obeys both, which obviously as seen in practise shows that they contradict each other in HIS MIND.

So with Sapmi you have to make it plain and clear.