tell u what, i used to think this when i was younger, you will do well to watch black guys interact with women...

whilst i do find it a little overboard in their approach, they are very sure of themselves and dont ask... they just take what they want. you will see them standin with a woman just not takin no for an answer.

it is a bit rapey like, but if you can tone that down u will do well

thats why some of women love them...

this is only based on what ive seen of stereotypical r & b black guys. obv not every black guy is like this.