Let me think about this....okay yes to a point, but in a word.

Adaptabilty.

Abundance mindset is absolutely fine, but use your intelligence.

Lets say she's cute, you like her, she's nervous thats obvious, a little insecure, not so obvious, amazing legs and you want to fuck her. Are you really going to crush spirit by saying 'for fucks sake you talk to much' and walk off. Leaving her even more self conscious. No you adapt to the girl stood in front of you, remain incontrol by leading the pace of the conversation and build more comfort with you, she'll change right before your eyes.

Situation two: stunning girl huge tits, confident, sassy, looks good bent over a table, rabbiting on about her own self importance, 'Man you talk a lot do you ever shut the fuck up, what if I put something in your mouth' big grin

Be adaptable and control the situation.