In this community a lot of the top
PUA’s advocate that one should always act as if they have an abundance of women “the abundance mind set”.
I fully understand why this line of thinking is a necessity in bringing other women in to your life as it helps one sub communicate a wealth of things, but the dilemma iv come across is if you don’t have 10 hot women lining up to fuck your brains out, this “abundance mind set” and the actions that come along with it is VERY difficult to pull off as the micro behaviours you perform will always give the game away on some level, as women are VERY in tuned to reading people on a subconscious level.
Possible Solution:
The only practical solution that I’ve been able to think of and that I’ve been testing when I’ve been out these last couple of nights, is concisely putting in/exerting the LEAST amount of EFFORT/ENERGY humanly possible into an interaction while still moving things forward/leading.
Using push/pull when needed & only touching when performing an action or on HIGH points (I use to touch girls unnecessarily a lot)
Examples:
When the conversation dies down, holding the silence while feeling comfortable with it. (Takes more energy for me to renegade then just waiting and letting HER reengage)
Not really concentrating on anything she may be saying.
Sticking to topics that are easy to discuss, so does not take much mental thought.
Getting her to talk about HER self as much as possible as talking about me requires me to think.
When girl leaves & tells me she’ll be back, opening the nearest bunch of people/girls nearby as waiting and thinking if she’ll be back takes more energy than just opening the next group of people/girls nearby.
Pulling girls towards me in a dominate fashion if they can’t her what I’m saying, instead of leaning in or moving towards them consistently.
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So far I’ve had positive results with this so far but I think I need to field test it a lot more extensively, but any thoughts or opinions on this topic would be welcome.