Start talking to everyone you meet.
Stay in conversations even when you feel awkward and want to leave until they leave first.
Say hello to Ramdon people and smile.
Tell girls in clubs "They are shit at dancing" It's not really that cuntish and normally is true.
Start doing stuff, join a Salsa class. Get a hobby (I recommend mountain biking!)
Start taking risks.

For example I'm going to a ceroc class on Monday after someone recommend it at a Salsa class I recently joined.

For example I've arranged to go mountain biking with a girl at work after I took a risk and asked her to come.

Read "John Alexander - How To Become An Alpha Male"

Take people's advice on here try it and use what works for you and throw the rest away.

Mark