Hmm interesting! I was thinking maybe I didn't seem as confident as I thought. But that is great! I have improved my confidence greatly so that makes me feel good, on one hand that she may be testing it, but on the other hand bad because I don't feel I dealt with it well (but I don't think I should be hard on myself as even now I can't think of anything different to say apart from saying no and then maybe giving her a taste of her own medicine by asking something similar back?!

Btw, by severe do you mean hard to answer? Hmm I mean come on girls need to give us a chance with their shit tests! They need to be hard, but not impossible!!