Many people go out with the intention of enjoying themselves together with just their friends, girls especially. It's necessary to understand this sometimes.

The public argument is silly, if you go to a restaurant with a bunch of friends you will be taken aback if someone strolls on up and sits at your table and makes themselves a part of your night.

What's in your spectrum of a night out isn't necessarily what's in the spectrum of other people's. Perspective and personal view matters a great deal. If you're intruding that's not cool, if you're not intruding then that's ok.

When you look at it from that mindset they are merely defending against your intrusive behaviour and you are following up with a very rude personal attack.

One perspective is not the only perspective.