1) she's probably bullshitting cos you haven't built enough comfort and attraction.

Also you have to get her to qualify to you before asking the number otherwise you only want it cos you want to stick your dick in.

2) not to sure myself best results I've had is being direct cos you can't talk through who,lies more in a club....plus opinion openers suck.

3) make the psychoanalysis funny so when she says stuff you're like. hhmmm...ooooohh and the like then when it's done turn your body away and don't tell her what it means. when she asks you say it's probably best you don't know teasing her with it. then when you tell her put in some ss nlp if you don't know that stuff download it.