Jay presented quite an in-depth argument.

Excellent and worth reading to appreciate the nuances.

Jay's argument and conclusion goes to the heart of what TV show like that recent C4 one Beauty & The Beast: Ugly Face of Prejudice - Channel 4 in which deformed people who are hyper confident and self-accepting would mentor a person who was massively concerned about appearance to point of obsession and unhappiness.

There is also a University research-approved test on C4 web state about body confidence at Beauty & The Beast: Ugly Face of Prejudice - Features - Body Confidence Test - Channel 4 which u might wish to give a whirl.