That clips not even Tim it's some other guy who's pissed out of his head in a gay bar! He maybe some RSD guy but it's certainly not Tim.

He's not crass, I think you're letting your stereotypes of Aussies get in the way, he comes from a position of equal footing and fun rather than trying to neg a girl down to your supposed lower level. I see that as more respectful to a woman than insulting her until she feels low enough status to get with you.