This is what I have been saying here:
What is this shit all about?
Just go out and enjoy yourself and concentrate on being interesting. Have a hobby. Do well in your job. I think this is what being socially awesome is. I go out, enjoy myself, go on dates but I work hard in my job, being a great dad for my kids, going to the gym 3-4 times a week as a hobby. I am starting a new contract in a week's time with a new client paying me more money and letting me do more hours. Life is great!
Good luck with the new you!!