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Originally Posted by Snake Eyes
Yes you are right essentially, but the fact that it is in my head makes it real to me. Whenever I'm just feeling free and being myself, I never think that must be because I'm top of the pecking order (cos I'm not, I'm just being a fun guy with no stresses or hang-ups).
It's when I am feel trapped and self conscious that I go all introverted and do feel low in the pecking order (or rather un-alpha perhaps, never thought of it as pecking order before this thread).
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Its very deeply ingrained behaviour, its embedded in your DNA - other primates and even dogs display the same social characteristics. I suppose the good news is that the female response to dominant/alpha behaviour is just as deeply programmed.