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Originally Posted by camarda
this is incorrect in my experience.
i have gone from being percieved in one way to being percieved in another way in multiple different social circles.
the truth is, if you are a clown originally, but transform into a clown who is 'self-improving' you are most likely still going to be a clown. the whole self improvement route via pua has been completely hopeless for me. |
Our new perception of someones actions are based on that of our old perceptions of thier previous actions.
If somebody with low social value and low confidence picksup a HB10, then we would percieve that to be lucky. If a confident high value man who gets woman all the time gets rejected by a HB7 we would percieve it to be unlucky.
You see our perception of people is massively bias on previous perceptions of that person.
The way i see it, if your not feeling good around your friends then its time to get new friends which you do feel good around. Afterall what are friends for???
AJay
"Those who push themselves, and are willing to face pain, exhaustion, hu¬
miliation, rejection, or worse, are the ones who become champions."