on a serious note.

dreams often represent an opposite image of your life to help you cope.

soldiers in world war two reported having the most wonderful dreams.

This is probably what's going on. your life is full of lust but without love. We have these feelings for a reason love is something everyone craves (except socio paths).

I think your problem is probably too much choice. It's like when I got to the shops and they've got 100s of different types of toothbrush. I'm there for ages trying to decide even though one is probably no better than the next one.

tip: find a woman that can cook. An old man told me that he's never met a decent that can't cook.