Analogy falls down. Women aren't enemies or some form of competition trying to beat you by out playing you. They're just human beings with various issues and neuroses just like you trying to get through life.

Don't be trying to outplay them or beat them, that's a really good way to end up with a pretty misogynistic mindset. Simply try to have fun with them while being attractive within yourself, there's no need for an i must beat them mindset.