I think a large part of it is that people are in relationships for the wrong reasons. I don't have a problem with either lifestyle. In regards to relationships I think that guys cheat cos they don't have as you said "your skills" so they get in a relationship and get lucky every now and again. the reason they are in a relation ship is to provide them with security and as such their reason for being in a relationship is lame and so are they.

On the other hand if they get in to a relationship because they want kids with them, love them, or whatever. Then it can work. the thing is most women aren't relationship material. I have girl I really like and I'd love to spend forever with her and raise kids and being a player doesn't work well with that plan.

It's a personal thing I'd rather have 1 amazing girl than a bunch of average girls.