This is an entirely subjective argument and it comes down to personal preference. You can fuck right off saying that people would choose to be single if they could have those abilities. The vast majority of people in the community settle into relationships, not out of necessity but because they prefer the connection and bonds they have with their partners, it that makes them feel good, it makes ME feel good. They prefer that over being single.

Might as well be arguing that apples are better than oranges. It's down to personal tastes.