It's not a change in image, I'm speaking personally here. I'm really passionate when it comes to this argument and find the lengths at which people will go to justify to themselves that interfering in other relationships is ok abhorrent.

People need to stop lying to themselves. It's ok when they do it but the other guy is a cunt when if it happens to them?

There isn't a way to justify it as ok without being a hypocrite at the same time.