Guys solo sarging is so different from going out with mates, I'd say its the only way to test who you really are and what you really want and are capable of. I went out just now in a stinkin mood, so bad that I didnt even want to talk to people. Forced myself to open sets and before long was adopted by a couple of very cool girls and their social group. didnt really have energy for dancing or gaming but had a good first solo night. Totally going to start doing it regularly and also cutting out chain smoking and drinking. Its the test, give it a try.