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Originally Posted by niknak
have you actually built any attraction?.
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what actually is building attraction?
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She sounds like she isn't really into you (for whatever reason) or is shy.
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She wasnt and i didnt care, but i am interested in the processes- the whys and whatnots
DHV
How do you demonstrate DHV without sounding like a game of oneupsmanship or like you are stuck up your own arse.
example....
Mid interaction...
Me:check how brown you are...you living a life of luxury travelling the world?
Her: hehe ive just come back from a week in Tennerife, have you been away?
Me: Just been to Russia this year, fancy somwhere hot now!-- you are the expert on Tans where do you recommend?
Her:benidorm,coz,cyprus,magaluf - where else you been besides Russia
Me: (lists roadtrips across america, canada, safaris - been to loads of amazing palces and done some cool stuff)
atsmophere changes -- she feels alienated like we are from totally different worlds
have i not just empirically demonstrated Higher Value and also hurt the intereaction.???