Thanks for the input. I mean I can handle myself in a physical situation no problems but I agree with knave, I'm not going to knuckle up some guy over a girl I've just met and get myself barred from one of the only decent bars in my little town.
Glad to get a few different perspectives on it though. I'm sure, given some time, a situation like this won't phase me at all. Its just a work in progress =)