My Voyage to develop a social Persona and not be such a standoffish ignorant mofo was conversation.... it beccame an interview, a sure fire question round.
bang,
bang
bang
never an akward silence

I fucked up.....fail

I put silences in there now, its not just about me showing an interest and holding ehr attention-- a conversation is 2 people getting to know each other, its a 2 way exchange
the silences promt her to 'Invest' into the exchange.

Is she refuses to Invest, fire her off as its a bad deal!