Well I'm coming up for 31 and I've got a number of natural attributes that I didn't have when I was younger. For one I'm much less reactive to things, I have maturity on my side so I don't try to be anyone's dancing monkey & thus don't give off that neediness vibe.

That's just me, others may be different, but I imagine these are general traits that come with age?

And that's just the mental attitude side of things. Whilst I'm not looking for a gold-digger (she'd be out of luck with me anyways!), I do have my own house, nice car etc and I think a certain level of prosperity can be a factor.