If you have no problem getting a kiss, but want to take it further without being rejected you need to achieve a sense of intense arousal that doesn't reduce her sense of security.

There are several parts of the body that are not directly considered sexual, but trigger sexual responses. The subtlest of these is the small of the back, if this is stroked lightly it will start to excite her in the right way and gives a hint as to further intentions, but it can be easily brushed off as mild petting if she becomes concerned.

Getting more obvious, yet more effective, never underestimate the importance of the neck. Light touch on the back of the neck is extremely arousing and can be easily stimulated whilst holding her head during a kiss. Take time to break the kiss and kiss her neck too.

What you now want do is make her WANT the sex. To do this you have to become more passionate so that she decides it must happen. Simple ways to do this are kissing harder and more intensley, moderate hair pulling (closer to the roots so it isn't painfull), and physically pulling her closer.

To get more intense try some mild to moderate biting, a goo place to do this is the haunches of the shoulders, there is is a big muscle there (trapezius) which provides a good fleshy part to bite, it is also where a large branch of you upper limb nerves run so can be sensative to the pressure of a bite. Start gently at first, then increase if she likes it.

By following these steps and adding a few personal touches and things you know she likes, SHE will want to progress things further and you wont appear to be pushing things. It is often good to slow things down if she makes moves too, so she feels you arent after one thing.

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