Someone told me to do similar to what phil mentioned earlier. It worked for me anyway. Become unavailable..cut down on facebook especially in the evenings, late txt replies, time constraint on phone convos, ur busy, and dont answer in the evenings. She told me that she thought I was seeing someone, where it was just all illusions and assumptions.
Most of ur disputes were probably of ur own illusions and assumptions anyway, we all become a victim of it... especially PUA's