Pre sarging tips, how to get into a fun state.

Meet up an hour earlier, at your mates flat. Play video games, hang out, have a laugh.

If you've been working all day, have a quick drink b4 u go out, alcoholic and/or energy drink, will take the très serious edge off.

I find going to gym helps or if time pressed a quick swim.. means u can go from tired and serious to energized! Exercise electrifies your whole body.

Don't overthink things. Initial sets, chat to guys nearby, or ANY women nearby, and be the guy they laugh with. So, this isn't pickup. It is being social.

Do a range of the above and u will hit ground running in a fun relaxed positive state.