Hey, Thought i would get this thing rolling again, i do feel you guys are getting weighed down in semantics
Now i am no expert here but it may get you guys thinking

consider this rough framework -- K.I.S.S (keep it simple stupid)

1. Open
a)Mid Level Hook
b)Kino

2. Build Comfort
a)High End Hooks
a)Demonstrate Value
b)Kino

3. Attraction
a)Sexual vibe/frame
b)Escalate Kino/Intimate

4. Conclude
a)Number
b)Kiss Close
c)Venue Change