Thankya.

I'd say Rood's right on that all roads lead back to Bandler, watch the master at work where you can. I like O'Connors NLP workbook as a solid modern all rounder because of its accessible format and to-the-point content. Structure of Magic is good but it is Bandler/Grinders early thesis on transformational grammer, which can be a tough read and, these day, aimed more at academic posterity.